avoid mixing accesses of ptrs derived from a mutable ref and parent ptrs
``@Vanille-N`` is working on a successor for Stacked Borrows. It will mostly accept strictly more code than Stacked Borrows did, with one exception: the following pattern no longer works.
```rust
let mut root = 6u8;
let mref = &mut root;
let ptr = mref as *mut u8;
*ptr = 0; // Write
assert_eq!(root, 0); // Parent Read
*ptr = 0; // Attempted Write
```
This worked in Stacked Borrows kind of by accident: when doing the "parent read", under SB we Disable `mref`, but the raw ptrs derived from it remain usable. The fact that we can still use the "children" of a reference that is no longer usable is quite nasty and leads to some undesirable effects (in particular it is the major blocker for resolving https://github.com/rust-lang/unsafe-code-guidelines/issues/257). So in Tree Borrows we no longer do that; instead, reading from `root` makes `mref` and all its children read-only.
Due to other improvements in Tree Borrows, the entire Miri test suite still passes with this new behavior, and even the entire libcore and liballoc test suite, except for these 2 cases this PR fixes. Both of these involve code where the programmer wrote `&mut` but then used pointers derived from that reference in ways that alias with the parent pointer, which arguably is violating uniqueness. They are fixed by properly using raw pointers throughout.
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