Make `ThinBox<T>` covariant in `T`
Just like `Box<T>`, we want `ThinBox<T>` to be covariant in `T`, but the
projection in `WithHeader<<T as Pointee>::Metadata>` was making it
invariant. This is now hidden as `WithOpaqueHeader`, which we type-cast
whenever the real `WithHeader<H>` type is needed.
Fixes the problem noted in <https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/issues/92791#issuecomment-1104636249>.