Make offset_of field parsing use metavariable which handles any spacing
As discussed at and around comments https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/issues/106655#issuecomment-1793485081 and https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/issues/106655#issuecomment-1793774183, the current arguments to offset_of do not accept all the whitespace combinations: `0. 1.1.1` and `0.1.1. 1` are currently treated specially in `tests/ui/offset-of/offset-of-tuple-nested.rs`.
They also do not allow [forwarding individual fields as in](https://play.rust-lang.org/?version=nightly&mode=debug&edition=2021&gist=444cdf0ec02b99e8fd5fd8d8ecb312ca)
```rust
macro_rules! off {
($a:expr) => {
offset_of!(m::S, 0. $a)
}
}
```
This PR replaces the macro arguments with `($Container:ty, $($fields:expr)+ $(,)?)` which does allow any arrangement of whitespace that I could come up with and the forwarding of fields example above.
This also allows for array indexing in the future, which I think is the last future extension to the syntax suggested in the offset_of RFC.
Tracking issue for offset_of: #106655
``@rustbot`` label F-offset_of
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